Jeff returned my Christmas card. I received it today. It makes me a tiny bit sad but not devestated. For me prayer is the only proven way to find peace about problems I can't fix. Knowing that I don't have to fix things, that God is in charge of the "fix-it" department and that He'll let me know when I can help....well that's workable for me. Hahahaha Bet God is glad I said that..........Hahahahaha